Posted in December 2014

Comments on Colby Melvin’s Queerty Interview

Comments on Colby Melvin’s Queerty Interview

I couldn’t help but feel that Colby Melvin’s recent interview with Queerty sparked some important things worth talking about. This is from the first part: Losing his job for being gay might be one of the best things that’s ever happened to Colby Melvin. But there’s also a Colby Melvin you probably don’t know: the … Continue reading

Does Fundamentalist Atheism Actually Exist?

Does Fundamentalist Atheism Actually Exist?

Recently,  I had the pleasure of reading Chris Stedman‘s post from his blog on Religious News Service on the debate topic of fundamentalist atheism: Earlier this year, a British politician called upon “militant atheists” to stop imposing “politically correct intolerance” on Christians. He is certainly not the first to use such language. Take, for example, … Continue reading

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas! As we celebrate this wonderful secular holiday, let’s consider one of the best things about this day: Doctor Who Christmas Specials! What would Christmas be without Killer Christmas Trees? “On every world, wherever people are, in the deepest part of the winter, at the exact mid-point, everybody stops and turns and hugs. As … Continue reading

More on Labels and Stereotypes

More on Labels and Stereotypes

While hanging at the Harvard COOP, I came across another great book, Drunk Tank Pink, by Adam Alter. The first part I decided to read was from Part I: The World Within Us, inside Chapter 12: Labels: In 2005, then Harvard University president Larry Summers attributed the dearth of female science and engineering professors to … Continue reading

On Self-Acceptance

On Self-Acceptance

I couldn’t help but resonate so much with this portion of The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, by Nathaniel Brendan, from Part II: Internal Sources of Self-Esteem, Chapter 7: The Practice of Self-Acceptance: Self-acceptance is the willingness to say of any emotion or behavior, “This is an expression of me, not necessarily an expression I like … Continue reading

Thoughts on ‘Survival of the Nicest’: Part I

Thoughts on ‘Survival of the Nicest’: Part I

I happened to read Stefan Klein’s Survival of the Nicest, particularly this portion of Chapter 8: Us Against Them, section “That’s not how you dax!”: Hannes Rokoczy, a developmental psychologist in Göttingen, taught three-year-olds an invented game he called “daxing.” The point was to move a block using a road and a pusher. After a … Continue reading

No Violence Against Police

No Violence Against Police

I am deeply, deeply saddened to hear of the deaths of New York City Police Officers Wenjian Liu and Raphael Ramos, who were targeted without provocation because of their uniform. This article via ABC News: Two New York City police officers were “assassinated,” shot “execution-style” as they sat in their patrol vehicle in the Bedford-Stuyvesant neighborhood … Continue reading

On Commitment, Part III

On Commitment, Part III

In two previous posts, I spoke about commitment. I continue it about thoughts on meeting that person: “He was my waiter. We’ve been together for 20 years and have three daughters.” “Who made the first move?” “We had an immediate connection. Isn’t that weird? I told my friend, ‘Our waiter is cute.’ She said, ‘I … Continue reading

On Commitment, Part II

On Commitment, Part II

In a previous post I addressed some of the reasons, I am much more endeared to having a committed relationship. I use to go to clubs not very long ago, but not with some misplaced hope that it would lead to a relationship. I hadn’t arbitrarily decided to not be a “relationship person” while going … Continue reading